A "Must Do" Tactic to Improve your Team Motivation Skills
Has this ever happened to you? You go to speak to your boss,
or a colleague, a friend or even someone in your family and
you feel they're not listening. How does that make you feel
- not very good I suspect.
When I bring this up in a team motivation seminar, some
managers start to feel a litle bit uncomfortable.
If you want to motivate and have a good relationship with
the people in your team, your customers, colleagues, friends
and family, then you need to be a good listener.
You need to look and sound like you're listening. When face
to face you need to look interested, nod your head and keep
good eye contact. Over the phone you need to make the
occasional - "Uh-Huh - I see."
I've seen managers, when faced with a problem from a team
member, start to do something else, like work on the
computer. I've also heard managers say - "It's okay, I can
do two things at once, I can listen to you and work on the
computer."
Maybe you can, but the message your team member gets is -
"My problem isn't that important, my manager just isn't
interested."
When you're spending time with people you need to give them
your full attention. You need to look them in the eye,
concentrate on them and make them feel that what they say is
important and deserves your attention.
As well as looking interested in your team member's or your
customer's problem, it's a good idea to write it down. I've
fallen into the trap of thinking - "I'll remember that when
I get back
to the office and I'll check on it." However, one
person I was with said - "You wont do anything about what
I've said Alan because you wont remember it." From that
point on I wrote things down.
It's also a good idea to paraphrase - to repeat back what
the person has said to ensure your understanding and let
them know you've been listening.
It may seem like a simple thing but it's very important to
use names. You could say in response to a problem from a
team member - "I'll speak to the accounts department about
that."
Its far better to say - "I'll speak to the accounts
department about that Susan, thank you for bringing it to my
attention."
That's a much better way for a motivating
manager to act.
A person's name is one of the warmest sounds they hear. It
says - "I recognise you as an individual." However, don't
overdo it as it may come across as patronising.
So just some food for thought - many people believe that to
be a good motivator you need to be a good speaker when in
fact - you need to be a great listener.
About the Author
Alan Fairweather - The Motivation Doctor - is a professional
speaker, author and business development expert.
He is the author of four ebooks in the "How to get More
Sales" series.
Lots of practical actions you can take to build your
business and motivate your team.-
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